Italians Love Tradition

Adapting to different cultures is usually difficult. But many times it’s also perplexing and mind boggling. Like the interesting mentality our town folk have. Hint: sometimes antiquated, backward, and impractical. Which often comes as a surprise to us. Because they are in many ways a practical and down-to-earth people.

Italians love tradition.

Which probably stems from its odd mix of old and new. An ancient and of timeless monuments, yet producing the world’s latest fashions, and modern cars, aircraft, and machinery. And while proud of these modern achievements, many Europeans love and tenaciously cling to their traditions.

Like many with their love of fireplaces.

It’s not just that they love them, as many people do. But they have totally convinced themselves that the fireplace heats their home. And back when homes first had them, they probably did. A home with a fireplace does stay warmer than one with no heat at all, for sure.

But by modern-day standards fireplaces don’t heat houses! Perhaps we’ve just become too spoiled and pampered. But I for one, like a certain amount of comfort. Especially warmth!

Most homes in our town have a fireplace and keep it burning all winter.

As an ESL (English as a second language) teacher, my husband goes into many students’ homes – to sit and shiver. And when he keeps his coat on, he inevitably hears, “Don’t tell me you’re cold! We’ve got the fire going!” As if it were the ultimate in modern heating!

We all know fireplaces warm only what’s right next to them. Snuggle up to them, and you’ll get warm — on one side! But nothing will convince these dear folk that fireplaces don’t heat. Or that, though enjoyable, they are terrible money-wasters!

Our neighbors just got a new pile of firewood. Which, according to Hubby, will last about 10 days. Wow! €160 for only ten days! And that’s not all. They also turn the central heat on in the evening, to warm the bedrooms. That’s a lot of money trying to keep warm! Trying, because their house is never really warm.

Which is why I’m so grateful for proper heating! We like heat and staying warm while spending little is one of our priorities! 

But back to our paesani (townfolk).

Most of them still stick to their fireplaces. Even after seeing how much warmer our house is and how little we spend. They still respond, “Ah, but the fireplace… it’s wonderful!” Especially the older folks, who say it keeps them company. And I get that, as it does give them something to tend to and has a homey, live feel to it. But I think it’s more a matter of nostalgia, taking them back to childhood memories and good times. While also keeping age-old family traditions alive.

But is tradition worth it? When it costs a fortune and isn’t really working? That’s not a mentality I really understand. I certainly don’t plan to freeze if I can help it. We were always too cold in our early years here, and I love our new warmth!

Yet, don’t we all cling to tradition in some ways?

Like cooking our favorite meals over and over, or always buying the same brands. In little ways, tradition can bring ease and/or comfort.

But sitting around cold, simply because it’s “what we’ve always done”? Or refusing to abandon harmful old wives’ tales like “don’t get any fresh air at all when you’re sick.” These seem senseless, and sometimes even unwise.

Our traditions are powerful tools. So lovely that they enrich our lives. Or sometimes so negative that they keep us trapped in the past. 

Yet each new day has something new and special to offer. So cherish the legacy of your enriching traditions, while being willing to start new ones as well!

Image credits: Book near fireplace | Olive oil | Fire is mine.

Author: Signora Sheila

American born, Italian at heart. In Italy 30+ years. I'm glad you're here and hope you'll join my journey!

6 thoughts on “Italians Love Tradition”

  1. Nice post and true! In our little village, we have the “sort” which provides lots of firewood for inefficient stoves. They love their stoves so much that they are going all year round. After all, their ancestors did the same thing, right?


  2. I am very much a traditionalist as well. I like old things and the old ways(mostly), but I sure do enjoy every modern convenience that technology provides! As to those fireplaces in Italy, I don’t suppose they have blowers over there do they? Installing a blower keeps the ambience of the fire while projecting the heat into the room instead of up the chimney. Enjoyed this post!


    1. I agree Ron. I think we need a mix of the old and new together. By abandoning all the old, we would lose much of value. But refusing to accept positive change can do the same thing. Actually you can get blowers over here, but most people don’t get them. We have termocaminos or water-heating fireplaces, which are connected to the heat radiators are quite efficient. But most folks don’t like them because the fireplace opening has to be closed by a resealable thermal glass door. And that prevents them from being able to “play” with the fireplace, which seems to be a favorite winter pastime here! Glad you enjoyed this post, and I’m definitely with you – they should do something to keep the heat from going up the chimney!!


    1. Me too, Mimi! Although with our family all so far away – it can be hard to keep them. Good thing we have them in our memories – it can make them still seem close. I’m glad you have your family near enough to make new traditions and memories together!!


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